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4.25.2010

take me back to coron


Before the everything starts to be stressful, my law school friends and I went to a trip which will forever etch good memories in our lives. Off we went to Coron, Palawan. :) Although, I initially hesitated to join this trip, am now so happy I changed my mind. Everything was perfect (except for a mishap that almost took my life. hahaha!).

Clear waters. Fine sand. Bright Sun. Fresh food. Chilled beer. Vodka Kurant. Good friends. Much laughter. Good times.

Coron, for now we have to part ways. But I promise to be back.

My summer is now over, but has been perfectly defined.

4.04.2010

K for K

Calling all running enthusiasts, compassionate givers or just anybody who wants to have fun and enjoys fellowship!

The Light of Jesus Catholic Community, the spiritual family of The Feast, is organizing a run on 29 May 2010, 5.30 a.m. at the Mall of Asia Grounds dubbed as K for K, Run a Kilometer for Kerygma, the 2010 Kerygma Fun Raiser. This is for the benefit of the ministries it is supporting such as Anawim (our ministry for the abandoned elderly) and other affiliate ministries.


For more info, visit www.lightfam.com/kfork

Easter Feast

Happy Easter everyone!

Today, the whole Catholic Church is celebrating the Resurrection of Jesus from death. This is the focal point of the Faith. :) And today, I celebrated it with my family at the Grand Feast at SMX. All the Feasts around Manila are invited to just this one Feast. 

Bro. Bo Sanchez, started a new series--OVERCOME


He spoke about turning our greatest failures into our biggest successes. He likened our lives into a big picture made up of puzzle pieces. That in putting them together, we may find one odd piece that may seem to not fit, yet, little did we know it does fit and it will complete the picture God intend to paint out of our lives. Am now excited to hear the other installments on the coming weeks. :)


 Look for the Feast nearest you and start receiving God's avalanche of blessings in store for you! Be blessed, everyone! :)

4.03.2010

beat the heat: halo-halo


On Black Saturday, after we had our pilgrimage to the National Shrine of the Divine Mercy in Marilao, Bulacan, we gave in to the craving for something really cold. NLEX is clear, fairly a few cars running to Manila so the trip was quite fast and easy. But the sun was scorching hot and glaring that we can't look outside our tinted windows without sunglasses. 

Great time for Halo-Halo (a Filipino delicacy made of a mixture of sweetened fruits, beans and jelly with crushed ice and milk, topped with ube and leche flan.) My mouth begins to water again as I typed that away. Hahaha! Going back to my story, one of my siblings, am just not sure now who, remembered a small carinderia in Tondo which serves the best halo-halo we've ever tasted. One problem: we do not know where that can be found exactly. So, called our cousins who brought us there some time ago and agreed to meet with them. 

To make the long story short, we had our servings of the delicious halo-halo and here are some of the pictures we took. :) 



This is where you find the Halo-halo haven!


Look for this signage! She makes the best halo-halo there is!


..and it's only Php 25.00!


 I'm not sure if she's Aling Consuelo (which I doubt) but she will surely serve you your halo-halo!

Here it is! (sorry, it's blurred)


see? they're loving it! :) (my sister and she, one of the three cousins we phoned)


Cha-cha is loving it too!


*Slurp! ;p

3.28.2010

...just because he loved us much

Today is Palm Sunday and the whole Catholic Church is now entering the Holy Week--a very special season of remembering the Passion and Death of Jesus on the Cross. 

Today we commemorate Jesus' entry into Jerusalem which manifested the coming of the kingdom that the King-Messiah was going to accomplish by the Passover of his Death and Resurrection. It is with the celebration of that entry on Palm Sunday that the Church's liturgy solemnly opens Holy Week (560, Catechism of the Catholic Church)We are encouraged to offer prayers and sacrifices to be one in the sufferings of Jesus. In that way, we can hope to have our own resurrection at the end of time.

I would like to share a video which Fr. Titus shared with us in the Mass earlier at the Feast.  This spoke about the love of the Father for us, that He can sacrifice His only beloved Son for our Salvation from eternal damnation. May this help you reflect on God's infinite and unconditional love for each of us. He loves us more than we can ever know. :)

3.19.2010

details in the fabric

Current song: Details in the Fabric | Jason Mraz feat. James Morrisson

"If it’s a broken part - replace it. If it’s a broken arm then brace it. If it’s a broken heart then face it. And hold your own, know your name, and go your own way, and everything will be fine." Details in the Fabric | Jason Mraz

3.12.2010

Trains and my President for 2010

I wrote this article for my Civil Law Review 2 class. Atty. Uribe asked us to write an article about who will we vote for President and why. This is my first time to finally declare who I will vote. 

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I was in a train going to downtown Toronto when I blurted out to a friend, “Sana ganito rin sa Pilipinas. Maayos ang transporation system. Malinis. Disiplinado.” (I hope the Philippines would be like this. We’d have good transport system. Clean. Disciplined.) With that comment, we started a long discussion of the reality of where the Philippines had gone, the evils of corruption, and the need for a strong leader. It was summer of 2002 and from then I always hoped for a President who has that genuine desire to improve the lives of the Filipino people and carry out this desire into actions.

Two years later, I find myself in Singapore on board the MRT to Chinatown. I was with a Singaporean friend and I asked her with curiosity and a bit of envy, “How come Singapore is so disciplined? Is this taught in school?” She paused for a second or two, and said, “I really do not know, but I just grew up in a society like this.” Then she went into the how Lee Kuan Yew transformed Singapore and envisioned it to rise above all the Southeast Asian Countries. Disciplined leadership.

 Among all the candidates vying for the Presidential seat, I feel that Richard Gordon possesses the strength of a great leader. As his name suggests, (Richard means, strong leader; brave one) he has proven himself in countless ways which includes development of Subic and Olongapo, resuscitating the moribund Philippines Tourism Industry while he was Tourism Secretary, enacting worthwhile laws such as Republic Act No. 9369, the New Automated Election System law while he was Senator, just to name a few.

Gordon may not possess the charm like those of the other candidates, in fact he is being accused of being snobbish and cocky, yet I believe that he is the only one with the political will to serve the function of the Chief Executive.  He may stay low on the surveys over the more popular candidates, but who ever said that good leadership is possessed by the popular? We need a leader who is willing to get his hand dirty with the true problems of society. We need a leader who works even without being noticed. We need a leader who would not be swayed by the criticisms of his detractors and will carry out his job even at the face of oppositions. We need a leader who has dignity and values our identity as Filipinos. As I’ve concluded in my train ride in Toronto and Singapore: the Philippines needs a leader with iron hands. Filipinos, we do not need a savior. We need a leader.

Most of the people I speak to say they would have wanted to vote for Gordon, but they feel he might not win. How will he ever win when everybody else thinks that way? Perhaps, people are afraid of casting a vote on an underdog. Electing a president is not a popularity contest nor is it a gambling feat. It is an investment for the next six years which fruits we will pass on to the next generation. We do not invest our hard earn money to just any business. Hence we should also not invest our votes to just any candidate. We have already inherited a gamut of debts and problems. Let this be our chance to redeem ourselves. I dare these people to step out of their fears and finally assert their choices.

Let us realize that this election is no longer about who looks better on TV advertisements, who sings the more novel jingles or gives out the sweetest, hopefully-not-empty promises. This is not the time to be sentimental. This is no time for the circus all over again. This is about a true show of patriotism to our motherland. This is about putting up someone whose authority we will respect and trust and will vow to hold that respect and trust with utmost dignity and ability.

With that until election day comes, I will keep on riding trains. 

2.25.2010

article repost: Dreams continue, even after retirement

I am reposting an article written by Gelo Cimagala, one of the very able distributors of Reliv for Business Insight Malaya. Go Gelo! :) 



Dreams continue, even after retirement

BY TRISTAN ANGELO CIMAGALA
Retirement has been good to Sonia Lim, a former trade marketing staffer at a multinational food corporation based in Paranaque. Recently retired at the relatively young age of 50, Lim has found a new passion to fill her time. Instead of the mind-numbing task of sorting through endless paper work she has found the exciting world of Mary Kay. In fact she does not consider herself retired.
"Yung retiree, yun yung nasa bahay talaga," she quips. "Parang nag-shift lang ako (ng work). Hindi pa ako retired."
Lim targets sales of P10,000 a day and employs one or two employees called "beauty consultants" to assist her with her work.
Lim is not alone. There is Oriel Magno, 63 a public relations practitioner by profession but who derives a huge chunk of his income from a company called Reliv.
He was with other networking companies before as a company executive but only with Reliv did he decide to become a distributor.
He narrates his first year with Reliv: "It was all excitement. I was able to get excited distributors...Before one year we earned P1.5 million."
More than the business however, he says he has found relief from his hypertension while his wife no longer suffers from the ill-effects of lupus. All thanks to their product.
Cyril Salvo, 51, was able to send her 7 children through school with the help of her Fuller Life business. "Nakapag-patapos na ako ng mga anak. Mga daily needs, mga gamit ng anak. Naging bread and butter namin (ang Fuller Life)...Pati sa kamag anak, na share ko ang benefit dahil sa direct selling."
She has come to depend on her business for most everything that they need in their daily lives. "Isipin ninyo hindi na ko bumibili ng appliances...lahat yan incentive. Mga rice cooker, electric fans. Halos lahat yata ng gamit namin sa bahay ...galing sa regalo," she says.
Mary Kay, Reliv, and Fuller Life are all multi-level marketing (MLM) companies operating in the country.

The industry

According to the Direct Selling Association of the Philippines (DSAP), the recognized group of MLM companies, there are an estimated 2 million individuals engaged in the practice of face-to-face selling. It does not have a retirement age, and anyone can do business regardless of educational background.
"It’s a great business for someone who has limited capital and wants to enter initially into retailing quality products. Risk is small because there are limits to entry fees. Rewards are great because of the way compensation plans are designed," explains lawyer Jolly Gomez, vice-chairman and in-charge of communications and government affairs of DSAP and also the managing director of Reliv Philippines.
Globally, the industry contributes $114 billion with products spanning food supplements, consumer goods, water, books, apparel and other services. For the Philippines, the industry has grown to P20 billion and is expected to expand despite current difficulties with the economy.
Gomez sees the industry developing further as there is much room for expansion. "This is a steady growth in a population which today is closing in on 90 million. This is one direct seller for every seventy five people. Compare this with the US which has 15 million direct sellers in a population of 300 million or a ratio of 1:20."
Gomez continues: "The Philippines is a market with very few players in the industry. We have only 27 DSA members as compared to 300 in Malaysia. The result is that there are fewer choices but better standards. With the Asean Harmonized Tariff scheme we may see the entry of many new companies from the region co-existing with local direct selling companies."

What exactly is network marketing?

"Direct Selling is face-to-face selling to the consumers through independent distributors or sales people. It is a legitimate marketing medium that is used to sell practically anything," says the DSAP website.
What is even more interesting in this business is the network building and the overrides or royalties one earns from the efforts of these "downlines."
Think of it as working in Human Resources, Marketing, Finance, and Sales in a corporate setting, all rolled into one. The distributor markets and sells the product, collects payment, and recruits people. These people will be trained by the sponsor who in turn will duplicate the system, otherwise there is a risk of losing them from the organization.
Magno relates: "A legitimate network marketing company is work. Your efforts are tied directly to the growth of your organization. It’s hard work but fun. Rewards mo mas malaki.....As you build your organization, once it hits someone who starts to earn lots of money you can’t stop that person if he wants to be successful."
A sponsor or upline then earns additional income through overrides, an additional percentage from the sales or earnings of the individual within his organization.
"Overrides can really pay you for life," declares Magno.
On the other hand, Salvo earns additional income from those she can encourage to re-sell her products by giving additional discounts to them.
"Lahat ng tao gusto kumita... (Sasabihin ko sa kaibigan ko) bibigyan kita ng percentage. Parang nagmu-multiply ang hand mo. I-share mo sa kanila ano ang nagiging benefit para sa iyo, paano sila mag-earn ng extra income."

A caveat

However, the industry has unfortunately earned for itself a reputation for being a source of dishonest practices.
"People still associate this industry with scams but the truth is that most of the scams that hit the Philippines in the past 10 years involved money investments and not the sale of consumable products," defends Gomez.
Gomez concedes, however, that there are those who make staggering claims, ones that are too good to be true.
"Unfounded and exaggerated health and income claims also damage the industry because these make health and medical practitioners resistant to health products. DSAP is involved in educating the public on the legitimate ways to do business in the Philippines. We are also in the forefront in the drafting of a Direct Selling Law in the Philippines," Gomez says.
As a reminder, Magno has this advice: "Choose one with a track record."

2.08.2010

love, love, love! v.2


"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

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Today, my parents celebrate their 28th wedding anniversary. 

I have a vague idea of how my parents met because until now, my mom is very evasive as to how they two fell in love with each other. As I reflected on their shared lives, I realized it does not matter. What matters is how they lived while for more than half of their marriage they were physically apart from each other. It was never perfect, nor was it near to being one. 

I've witnessed episodes of fighting and forgiving; cold treatments and hours of overseas calls; frustrations and acceptance; ticking off and enormous tests of patience; giving, taking, and giving back; hardships, perseverance, and victories. It went up and sometimes it slides down. They would fall out of love, then fall in again.

Yet through it all, I knew that love abounds. It may come from one or both of them at a given time but I am more certain that a God with overflowing Love supplies the love they need to see the marriage through. This love kept them together despite the distance. It impelled them to forgive despite the hurts. It gave them eyes to see beyond the wrinkles and widening hips. It transformed each of them into beauty. God's love kept on burning for them to share the warmth of their own love. God's love surely perfected their love for each other.

Twenty-eight years may have passed, but the celebration continues. From today until forever I pray that the Spirit of God would rest upon them to continue pruning them until they reach the perfection of God's divine plan for their lives. For now, I seek for God's mercy and graces to fall upon them: that they may remain faithful to each other and to the vows they exchanged; that they may fulfill they're roles as partners; Most importantly, may love always win, always reign. 

2.07.2010

love, love, love! v.1

Although, I am not really a fan of Valentine's day, I am sort of joining the bandwagon in sharing my thoughts, experiences and reflections on love. Let us all enjoy this special day, but most importantly, let's learn to share love everyday. 

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"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear"- 1 John 4:18 


There was a chapter in my life that I was in deep desolation. I was searching for answers to  the questions that swirl in my head. My past was catching up on me then. I was insecure, uncertain and fears crept in my heart. I felt lost. I felt disconnected inside. I was a ball of darkness bouncing without direction in this tepid world. 

My heart seeks to be satisfied. I knew I had more than what I needed. Yet, it felt that there must be something that I am missing. Surely, there is something.  I cried to God in prayer, without really knowing what to ask for. Days passed. Weeks came. Months turned in and out. 
"When love takes you in, everything changes. A miracles starts with the beat of a heart. When love takes you home and says you belong here, the loneliness ends and a new life begins..."

Friends and family like angels flew to me, consoled me and accepted me for just who I have become. Initially, I did not heed, sometimes I'd even  deliberately run away or resist. Little by little, as their love for me trickled in my famished heart, I begin to open myself to healing and loving. 

It was then, I found another meaning of love: acceptance and forgiveness. I realized that in true love one need not pretend, instead one must just be humble enough to show his real self to the people who loves him. Love is the unveiling of self.  I learned that true love is felt only when the true selves are allowed to share that love. It  is definitely a risk, but a risk surely worth taking.

I now know that I am a different person not only because of the pains I went through, but because of the enormous love of the people around me. The more I take in love, the more that my fears start to dissipate, because I have nothing more to hide, nothing more to fear.  I felt secure in the fact that most people may not like me, but there are a handful that loves me. More importantly, I am confident that even these imperfect people fail in loving me, there is a God who loves me perfectly and faithfully, without conditions, without end. 


*** texts in italics is from the song, "When love takes you in" by Steven Curtis Chapman

1.27.2010

DO NOT ERASE

Working with kids is such an uber rewarding and adorable experience for me. They have their own way of making you feeling super special even if most of the time they drive you crazy (especially when they ask you questions or just talk to you ALL AT THE SAME TIME!) They are so magical, they can put you under a spell. ;)


I was rushing to class this afternoon. When I walked in, I saw this drawing on the board. Clara, one of the girls in the class, drew it for me. See, she even wrote: "DO NOT ERASE" As soon as the class was over, I took this picture and left the room without erasing it. ;)





Kids are soooo candid and so pure! I am loving CCD classes. (ooopppsss, am getting attached to the kids already. Hahahaha!)

1.26.2010

free trip to bora!

Win a Free Boracay Vacation Package by WOW Philippines Travel Agency

WOW Philippines Travel Agency, Inc. is celebrating it's 5th year in business during July of 2010, and we would like you to have a chance to celebrate with us, so we have decided to give-away a FREE Boracay Package complete with 5 Star accommodations at the luxurious Le Soleil de Boracay Hotel on Boracay Island. The lucky winner will win the following Boracay vacation package.

Vacation Package Inclusions:
- 5 Days / 4 Nights Luxury 5 Star Accommodations at the Le Soleil de Boracay  Hotel
- Flights to Boracay from Manila to Caticlan Airport on Philippine Airlines
- Island Transfers - Door-to-Door from Manila to the resort and back to Manila
- Three (3) Meals each day, Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner
- Boracay Activities - Horseback Riding, Island Hopping, Glass Bottom Boat
- PLUS - 5,000 peso Spending Cash

Read More Information: http://www.boracay-packages.com

1.25.2010

Doctor speaks on how nutrition helped his kid

Dr. John Harold Ong speaks about how his daughter, Arielle, who was diagnosed with Severe Developmental Delay bordering on Global Mental Retardation got terrific results with Reliv Products.
I've seen this pretty girl and I am a believer! :)
Thanks Gelo for the video! :)




1.20.2010

after midterms




This nice and subtle happiness of reading, this joy not chilled by age, this polite and unpunished vice, this selfish, serene life-long intoxication.  ~Logan Pearsall Smith


- Thanks, Ted. =)

1.19.2010

ULTIMATE!



After years of ignoring a friend's invitation to play Ultimate, I finally gave in last night! (I learned last night that the game was called Ultimate and not Frisbee, which is brand name of the disc) It was beginners' night and of course, we were taught the basics of throwing and catching. I "played" three games (although technically, i just ran), but I did have fun. :) Am coming back next week for another two fun hours of running, passing, and catching. :)
I have no intentions of playing competitive yet, but I surely want to play and have fun. 

1.05.2010

21 Critical Life Lessons You Didn't Learn in School

This is a repost from my ever supportive mentor. 

Just thought of sharing this Food for thought I found at http://johnplaceonline.com...

If someone doesn’t take us aside and teach us a few things (assuming we’d listen) before we graduate high school, we are doomed to learn life’s hardest lessons in the real world beyond the classroom.

With that in mind, here are 21 non-academic lessons every person should know before he or she graduates high school; if you graduated long ago (as I did), this list represents all the things you wish you had been taught, yet had to learn (or are still learning) on your own.

Love and Relationships

1. Choosing a Mate: Your ability to select a suitable spouse will greatly influence your financial and emotional well-being, yet parents and teachers seldom mention it. A few common sense guidelines: pick someone who’s a joy to be around and who makes you happy; know the person well; ensure compatibility beyond the physical because beauty and youth are fleeting, while the mind and heart endure.

2. Evaluating Relationships: Given the tremendous importance of relationships, it’s surprising we receive so little instruction on how to evaluate, prune, and nurture them. Start by asking yourself whether each of your relationships drags you down or lifts you up. Surrounding yourself with positive relationships is half the battle.

3. Conversation: Successful relationships require solid communication: use body language, appropriate tone of voice, and eye contact; be friendly and considerate of alternative viewpoints; persuade gently; listen, listen, listen.

4. Handling Difficult People: An essential life skill, handling difficult people can be taught, but seldom is. I’ve written about this before, and there are several good books on the subject, including Robert Bramson’s Coping with Difficult People.

5. Networking: Ask for business cards, maintain a Rolodex (electronic or otherwise), and stay in touch with people who respect you. Association breeds opportunity, personally and professionally.

6. Compassion: We are born egocentric, but by the time we graduate high school, we should be capable of understanding, appreciating, and sympathizing with others. Compassion helps us understand our place in the world and ensures we are emotionally well rounded.

7. Teamwork: Work environments have gravitated toward small teams. Sports, team projects, and group goals are great ways to learn teamwork, but are seldom adequate. Evaluate interpersonal skills regularly; correct as needed.

8. Giving: As a child, I always thought the expression “it’s better to give than to receive” was trite and silly. As an adult, I recognize the expression’s value. Having the capacity to give means you possess; having the will to give means you want to make a difference; having the desire to give means you care.

Money Management

9. The Material Myth: Pursuing happiness by acquiring material things (granite countertops, plasma televisions, designer clothing) is like jogging to the grocery store on your treadmill: it’s not going to happen.

10. Saving: Keep 3 to 6 months salary in an emergency fund, in case you lose your job; use online calculators to determine the proper amount to save for retirement; keep money on hand for unexpected expenses, such as car and home repair.

11. Debt: Financial gurus suggest that total debt, excluding first mortgage, should not exceed 20% of take-home pay. This includes car payments, home equity loans, second mortgages, credit card debt, and so forth. Upper income consumers may be able to handle higher debt loads due to greater expendable income, while lower income consumers may be wise to carry less. And my number one rule of debt: credit cards should never be used as supplemental income.

12. Frugality: Live below your means. Look for bargains. Shop at discount stores. Clearly delineate needs (transportation) from wants (a big SUV). Feel free to indulge occasionally, but mind the consequences.

13. Debtor Responsibility: I believe every person who borrows money has a social, moral, and ethical responsibility to make payments on time and in the correct amount for the duration of the contract. Generally speaking, the credit bureaus agree.

Career

14. Passion: School sharpens skills, but seldom taps into your most powerful reserve of all: Passion. If you want to be happy at the top of Maslow’s pyramid, find a job you love.

15. Practicality: While you’re chasing self-actualization, paying bills remains important. Independent research using the Occupational Outlook Handbook or other resources can help you figure out how to make a living in whatever industry inspires you.

16. Politics of Advancement: Advancement in the working world often depends as much upon interpersonal skills as it does upon job skills. Persuasion, argument, and expectation setting are crucial.

17. Entrepreneurial: Unless you’re related to business owners or have learned about business ownership on your own, there’s a good chance that owning a business seems puzzling, daunting, and overwhelming. The fact that young people in a capitalistic society aren’t given the basic tools of ownership is unfortunate. Find a mentor. Attend a workshop. Read.

Personal Success

18. Positive Thinking: Attitude determines altitude. If you believe you can do it, most of the time, you really can.

19. Personal Accountability: Most success boils down to perseverance, determination, tenacity, and other products of personal accountability.

20. Setting and Achieving Goals: Goal setting, research, planing, commitment, and hard work are all required to reach any big, life-altering objective. In other words, all the schooling in the world won’t help you reach your dreams if you don’t take time to determine what you want and how to obtain it.

21. Health: Throughout my life, I’ve noticed that no single thing does as much to improve my outlook as getting healthy. Eat nutritious meals in proper portions. Drink plenty of water. Try to get 30 minutes of aerobic exercise daily (or at least every other day). Get plenty of sleep. High school health classes teach these concepts, but seldom make the connection between health and the rest of life; the connection is real. And it’s huge.

So there you have it: 21 lessons you can’t (or generally don’t) learn in school.

These lessons are not intended to insult teachers or schools, or to suggest curriculum. They are merely thought starters; something to think about regarding lessons learned through painful experience.

Life is an exploration, and maybe certain lessons must be experienced to be understood. Yet I wonder how much pain we could prevent if we taught life’s important lessons to our young people instead of relying on the real world to teach them for us.

1.01.2010

may the good Lord bless you

Today's First Reading is taken from the book of Deuteronomy. Such blessing was part of the Jewish blessings made by their priests, and was later adapted by the Catholic Bible. Something very timely for the start of a new year, as we invoke God's blessings. 


So I repeat the blessing and pass it on: 


"The LORD bless you and keep you! The LORD let his face shine upon you, and be gracious to you! The LORD look upon you kindly and give you peace! So shall they invoke my name upon the Israelites, and I will bless them." (Numbers 6:24-26)


A Spirit-filled New Year to everybody! :)

12.28.2009